I’m a Wife and a mother.


odd answer to prayer
Monday, September 14, 2009, 1:24 pm
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so daniels hours have slowly but surely been cut. we are now down to half the hours we’d been use to about 45-50 hrs a week now he’s at almost 30. we really missed the over time but were ok with the 40 hrs. but good grief its been hard not getting the full 40.
well all of that said im glad to report he will be back to 40 hrs and maybe even some overtime but the funny thing it’ll kinda be “demoted” hes gonna be digging ditches at his splicer pay. so at least he didn’t have to take a pay cut too. i am sad he has to work so hard. but out of all our options this t
is the best solution and he doesn’t have to keep his truck dull of all the tools and what not and he will be driving to the yard and using a work vehicle so we r gonna save tons on gas. it is a such a blessing. an odd one but still a great answer to prayer.



understanding Gods timing
Monday, August 31, 2009, 9:00 pm
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I admit I have never really understood Gods timing my entire life I have also wondered why things happen the way they do. You know for all kinds of things like the lose of a parents child, horrible car accidents, illnesses and what not. But its really been in pretty much my daily or at least monthly thoughts lately. Mostly revolving around children. Dont get me wrong I LOVE LOVE LOVE my kids but Daniel and I were not expecting to ever have kids and I am so grateful God chose to bless us with our 2 lovely children. But I am also sad for those who I love that would make the most awesomest parents and are in the best spiritual, emotional and financial shape sit and wait for God to bless them. I mean really now! take daniel and I we love each other yes and I think we got a pretty bangin marriage but we are BROKE! (financially) We have a very small section of home at my parents house. Then theres my sister in law they are awesome people, have a great marriage, very financially stable, both heavily involved with sandals church, both love kids very much and yet God is working in them something great I’m sure but they still wait. I read other peoples blogs and hear them talk and struggle with this and I have to admit I have a hard time understanding why God has given us children and not them. I don’t want this to sound like I am not oh so grateful for my children cause I am but my heart breaks for them. does this sound crazy?! I think the issue I am having has to do mainly with not understanding why God would want to bless me. Dont really know where I was going with this but its been on my heart for a while.

sorry I have horrible grammar and what not but this is how it comes out of my head.



Well baby
Friday, August 14, 2009, 12:56 pm
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so today I finally made it into a well baby check up for micah. he has been to one since his 3 month on. Gasp I know. But I believe most vaccines are givin to early so we wait a little and I just happened to wait a little too long. lol and I just keep forgetting. She said “wow its been a while. how long has it been? Really that long where you been?” I told her “out of my mind” it was very different when it was just one kid but with two so close in age its melted my brain.
Anywho Micah is 23.7 lbs (70th percentile) 29 inches (49th percentile) and 17.5″ head cercumfrance (13th percentile) he has not changed percentile since he was born! after the nurse took his messurments and weight she said ok you can put a diaper back on. I went diggin couldnt find one and said “are you serious!” she asked what size he was and went and got him one. Gotta love kid oriented establishments. guess its better to give a way a diaper then to have to clean up poop and pee.
She loves my kids growth charts. She always says “oh look at that beautiful chart. Come take a look” Its ok that his head is small its always been that way. I told his doc I feel like trins head came out that size. hehe She asked how trinity was and I told her she never shuts her mouth. she is talking none stop. she laughed. She loves his thighs just like the rest of us do. and can’t believe how strong he is. The nurse had to struggle to hold him down to give him his shots. Then we had to go over and get some blood drawn and that was awful. poor thing was bright red tears streaming down his face and no sound coming out of his wide open mouth. life is so hard at his age.
On a different note Trinity hasnt had a poop accident since her last one on monday. I think her talking to from Chloe helped. peer pressure is great. hehe



Tuesday, August 11, 2009, 1:36 pm
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Please be in prayer as we wait to hear back from direct tv. Daniel is hoping to get an interview with them.



kids update
Sunday, August 9, 2009, 4:56 pm
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ok so here we go with an update. FINALLY! bare with me I’m sleepy should’ve taken a nap.
ok so we’ll start with Trinity. she talks so much now once she starts you almost cant stop her. unless you are a stranger. which is good I guess. She is 3′ tall and growing every day.
She is in love with Yo Gabba Gabba we sing their songs in every situation.
she’s taken to not understanding the commands “dont” and “stop it” makes me very unhappy but I guess it could be worse since she is two.
She loves being chased around by Micah and he truly enjoys doing it.
A few sundays ago daniel won tickets to an Angels game and took trinity she had tons of fun and when asked if she wanted a rally monkey or a foam finger she choose foam finger. She wears it and points at things with it and also chants “we’re #1 we’re #1″ its cute!
She loves learning new words in spanish and sign language. her newest is butterfly her sign language needs some work but its still really cute.
she went through a very brief issue with being in the pool but has completely gotten over it and is now letting us hold her so she can float on her back and doggie paddle.
She is almost completely potty trained. She can go through a nap completely dry and she only has poopie issues.

now on to micah
he is 2′4″ and we are pretty sure he’s a bout to go through a growth spurt to thin out his nearly 30 lbs body!
he is a little bull dozer. he plows through and over anything and everything. makes keeping him out of trouble really difficult. which leads me to my next point
he has become completely obsessed with playing in the toilet! I would love to put the toilet on lock down but trinity needs somewhat easy access.
His favorite thing to do is scream.
He has 4 teeth.
he’s almost walking. He takes 2-3 steps then gives up and stats crawling.
He loves shaking his head no and waving bye bye. If you dont wave bye bye back he’ll starting waving frantically and if that doesn’t get your attention he’ll start screaming until you wave back.
he too loves the pool. well pretty much just water in general.
He LOVES his binkie and I do to. It does 3 things. 1. it keeps him happy. 2. stops him from putting random stuff in his mouth. and keeps him sleeping at night! he can use that thing as long as he wants. ;)
He loves playing with trinity. Almost everything she does makes him laugh and laugh hard!
He loves trinitys dolls. he drags them around and I love it. We are hoping it’ll teach him to be “soft” with other babys.
he loves Yo Gabba Gabba too. we call it baby crack in our house but really it should be baby pot. no matter what mood they are in once it comes on they shut up sit down and remain that way until its over. its the quietest 30 mins in our house!

cant think of anything else right now and the laptops dying.



slackin
Friday, August 7, 2009, 3:18 pm
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man I’ve been meaning to post things. I think. Man I so should blog about this then I totally forget what I was gonna blog about and then its off to the next thing I think I should blog about and the same thing happens totally forget what it was. oh well.



Nervous princess
Wednesday, June 3, 2009, 11:41 pm
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Shes silly she started to get shy on the way to erins. I’ll post the video that showed a very different emotion
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yahoo
Wednesday, June 3, 2009, 11:34 pm
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ok so if anyone cares and still uses i.m.s i think im gonna start using yahoo messanger. its my email wiibedavizthums@sbcglobal.net. let me know if you do the same



left or right
Saturday, May 30, 2009, 2:45 pm
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according to this I am left brained

LEFT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses logic
detail oriented
facts rule
words and language
present and past
math and science
can comprehend
knowing
acknowledges
order/pattern perception
knows object name
reality based
forms strategies
practical
safe

RIGHT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses feeling
“big picture” oriented
imagination rules
symbols and images
present and future
philosophy & religion
can “get it” (i.e. meaning)
believes
appreciates
spatial perception
knows object function
fantasy based
presents possibilities
impetuous
risk taking

I took another test that asked a ton of questions and this is what my results were.

I AM:

Left Brain

45%

Right Brain

55%

You are more right-brained than left-brained.
The right side of your brain controls the left side of your body. In addition to being known as right-brained, you are also known as a creative thinker who uses feeling and intuition to gather information. You retain this information through the use of images and patterns. You are able to visualize the “whole” picture first, and then work backwards to put the pieces together to create the “whole” picture. Your thought process can appear quite illogical and meandering. The problem-solving techniques that you use involve free association, which is often very innovative and creative. The routes taken to arrive at your conclusions are completely opposite to what a left-brained person would be accustomed. You probably find it easy to express yourself using art, dance, or music. Some occupations usually held by a right-brained person are forest ranger, athlete, beautician, actor/actress, craftsman, and artist.

Your complete evaluation follows below:

Your left brain/right brain percentage was calculated by combining the individual scores of each half’s sub-categories. They are as follows:

Your Left Brain Percentages

Linear 34%
Verbal 27%
Reality-based 22%
Sequential 17%
Symbolic 17%
Logical (Your least dominant characteristic)

Your Right Brain Percentages

36% Holistic (Your most dominant characteristic)
34%Random
34%Intuitive
29%Fantasy-oriented
25%Nonverbal
19%Concrete (Your least dominant characteristic)

What Do These Percentages Mean?

Low percentages are common in the Brain Type Test and are not indicative of intelligence. Instead, medium to high scores (30 – 50%) are desireable, as they show an ability to utilize a processing method without an abnormal reliance on it. Special focus should be paid to highly dominant (50% or above) or highly recessive (0 – 30%) methods, as they tend to limit your approach when learning, memorizing, or solving problems.

If you have Highly Dominant characteristics, your normal thinking patterns will naturally utilize these methods. Conscious effort is required to recognize the benefits of other techniques. Using multiple forms of information processing is the best way to fully understand complex issues and become a balanced thinker.

If you have Highly Recessive characteristics, your normal thinking patterns naturally ignore these methods. You may only consider these under-utilized techniques when “all else fails,” or possibly not at all. It is important to recognize the benefits of all of your brain’s capabilities in order to become a balanced thinker.

Left Brain Categories
Linear Processing

Linear processing is a method by the left hemisphere to process information. In this process, the left brain takes pieces of information, lines them up, and proceeds to arrange them into an order from which it may draw a conclusion. The information is processed from parts to a whole in a straight, forward, and logical progression.

Your Linear Analysis

When processing information using this method, you will occasionally feel the need to see the “whole picture” before you are able to achieve results. At other times, you are able to piece all of the parts together in a straight and logical progression to form a whole, which then enables you to understand what you have processing. The information, your mood, and your level of comfortable are all factors that determine your response to a linear processing problem.

Verbal Processing

Verbal processing is a method used by the left hemisphere to process our thoughts and ideas with words. For example, through verbal processing, a left-brained person giving directions may say, “From this point continue east for two miles and turn north onto Bellevue Road. Continue north on Bellevue Road for seven miles and turn west on Main Street”. With verbal processing, exact, logical directions are given in a very sequential manner compared to a right-brained person who, in giving the same directions, would use more visual landmarks.

Your Verbal Analysis

You have a moderate verbal ability. Using this method you process your thoughts and ideas with words. You tend to combine technical details with illustrations, depending on whatever strikes you. For instance, if giving directions, you might say, “Continue two miles east on Court Street and take a left at the McDonalds,” combining the exact details of street names and mileage with prominent landmarks.

Reality-based Processing

Reality-based processing is used by the left hemisphere as a method for processing information with a basis on reality. This processing tool focuses on rules and regulations. An example of this would be how a left-brained person would completely understand the repercussions of turning in a late assignment or failing a test. A left-brained person also usually easily adjusts to changes in their environment.

Your Reality-based Analysis

You process information with a basis in reality, but are not limited to it. You may recognize the repercussions of you actions, but proceed to do something anyway, in the heat of the moment. You can complete projects to whice you are emotionally attached as well as random tasks.

Sequential Processing

Sequential processing is a method used by the left hemisphere for processing information. The information that is received is processed in order from first to last. Information is processed in a systematic, logical manner. Through sequential processing, you can interpret and produce symbolic information such as language, mathematics, abstraction, and reasoning. This process is used to store memory in a language format. Activities that require sequential processing include spelling, making a “to-do” list, and many aspects of organization.

Your Sequential Analysis

You tend process information you receive without any priority as to which is processed first, last, or any place in between. It is difficult for you to learn or perform tasks involving sequence. For example, spelling is a task that involves sequence and you may experience problems remembering exact spelling or any type of rote memorization, for that matter. Creating daily lists and plans are probably not activities you enjoy. If you are having problems with tasks involving sequence, there are methods you can use to improve your skills. One method involves using colors to learn sequence. You assign a color to each task. For example, you may want to make the first step green, the second step blue, and the last step red. This helps because the right side of the brain, your dominant side in this case, is sensitive to colors. The important thing to remember is that consistently using the same sequence will help you both improve and recognize that this strategy can be used in many different circumstances involving sequence.

Symbolic Processing

Symbolic processing is a method associated with the left hemisphere that is used for processing the information of pictures and symbols. The majority of functions associated with academics involve symbols such as letters, words, and mathematical notations. This process is what aids you to excel in tasks such as linguistics, mathematics, and memorizing vocabulary words and mathematical formulas.

Your Symbolic Analysis

You have difficulty processing the information of symbols, and would rather see the real object in order to understand. You probably hated algebra. For example, if solving a math problem, you need to “draw out” the problem to understand and solve it. You rely on the visualization of real objects instead of their symbols. Tasks such as memorizing vocabulary words or mathematical formulas are more difficult for you.

Logical Processing

Logical processing is a method that is used by the left hemisphere to take information piece by piece and put it all together to form a logical answer. When information is received through reading or listening, the left hemisphere will look for different bits of information that will allow it to produce a logical conclusion. This aspect of the left hemisphere is what aids you in solving math problems and science experiments.

Your Logical Analysis

Logical processing is not one of your strengths, so you may tend to rely on a “gut” feeling to help you make your decisions from the information you have received. For example, you will often choose an answer on a test because it “feels” right, and you may be correct. This is due to the fact of your tendency to look for the whole picture but not the details that create it. You can often start with the answer and work your way back to allow yourself to see the process and parts that create the whole. You may find math problems and science experiments difficult because of this.

Right Brain Categories

Holistic Processing

Holistic processing is a method used by the right hemisphere to process information. The information is processed from whole to parts. A right-brained person, through holistic processing, is able to see the big picture first, but not the details that accompany it. A strongly holistic person may often find that prior to listening to a lecture given by an instructor, they must first read the chapter so that they better understand what the lecture is about. This function is also what provides to you your visual spatial skills. It also aids in tasks such as dancing and gymnastics. Through holistic processing, memory is stored in auditory, visual, and spatial modalities.

Your Holistic Analysis

You show some ability to process data holistically, starting with the whole and working backwards to find the parts, which inform the whole, to form your conclusion. When you process information in a linear manner you are able to start with the parts and work up to form the whole. It is important to be comfortable with both methods, as both are equally necessary in the learning process.

Random Processing

Random processing is a method used by the right hemisphere for processing information. The information that is received is processed without priority. A right-brained person will usually jump from one task to another due to the random processing by their dominant right hemisphere. Random processing is, of course, the opposite of sequential processing therefore making it difficult for right-brained individuals to choose to learn in sequence. In order to overcome this, a right-brained person may want to attempt to learn sequence by using colors since the right hemisphere is sensitive to color. For example, you may want to associate the first step with green, the second step with blue, and the last step with red. Consistently using the same sequence will allow you to see that this strategy can be applied to many tasks involving sequence.

Your Random Analysis

You have some ability to process data randomly. You are at times able to make “leaps of logic” and discover unique things by thinking “outside of the box.” However, you may tend to ignore your random processing thoughts unless you are desperate for a solution. It is important you recognize this skill as not grasping at straws, but a viable way to discover new ways of approaching a problem.

Intuitive Processing

Intuitive processing is a method that is used by the right hemisphere to process information based on if it “feels” right or not. For example, a right-brained person may choose an answer on a test because they had a “gut” feeling and often they will be correct. Another example of this is how a right-brained person will know the correct answer to a math problem but will not understand the procedure of how they arrived at the correct answer. A right-brained person will usually have to start with the answer and work their way backwards in order to be able to see and understand the parts and process that create the whole.

Your Intuitive Analysis

When processing information, at times you are able to go with your “gut” instincts. At other times you may doubt your instincts, or prefer to put information together piece by piece to form your conclusion. You should be careful not to ignore your intuition, but at the same time do not solely rely on it.

Fantasy-oriented Processing

Fantasy-oriented processing is used by the right hemisphere as a method for processing information with creativity. It focuses much less on rules and regulations than the processing method of a left-brained person. Due to the fantasy-oriented processing mechanism of a right-brained person, they do not adjust well to change. Instead of adapting to the change in the environment, a right-brained person attempts to change it back to the way they liked it. But fantasy-oriented processing also provides the advantage of creativity to right-brained individuals, and since emotion is integral of the right side of the brain, anything a fantasy-oriented person becomes involved in emotionally will aid their ability to learn.

Your Fantasy-oriented Analysis

You have the ability to use both creativity and reality to process the information you receive. This is a unique gift that allows you to both focus on rules and regulations but to also act with creativity. You are able to adjusting to change, even though you might not like it, and you can become emotionally involved in your work if it interests you.

Nonverbal Processing

Nonverbal processing is a method used by the right hemisphere to process our thoughts with illustrations. Reliance on this method is why it is occasionally difficult for right-brained people to “find the right words” in certain situations. A right-brained person cannot just read or hear information and process it, but first must make a mental video to better understand the information they have received. For example, through nonverbal processing, a person giving directions may say, “Continue going straight until you see a big, red-brick courthouse. At the courthouse turn right, and go down that street for a couple of miles until you se a gray stone church which will be on your right. Straight across from the church is the road to the left you need to take.” With nonverbal processing, the directions that are given are extremely visual compared to the exact, sequential directions that would be given by a left-brained person.

Your Nonverbal Analysis

When processing your thoughts and ideas, you use tend to use both illustrations and words. When giving directions, you probably use both visual illustrations such as, “keep going until you see a McDonalds on your right; then turn left at the Home Depot”, and technical terms such as, “travel for two miles and turn east onto First Street.”

Concrete Processing

Concrete processing is a method associated with the right hemisphere that is used for processing things that can be seen or touched. It processes much of the information you receive from real objects. For example, a right-brained person is not just satisfied that a mathematical formula may work, but will want to know why it works. A strongly concrete person often finds it easier to solve a mathematical problem by “drawing it out” because it allows them to visualize it. The more a concrete person can visualize something the easier it is for them to understand it.

Your Concrete Analysis

When you process information you have received, the real object is not important to you. You do not have to use the real object to make sense of what you have processed. For example, if solving a math problem you do not have to “draw out” the problem in order to find or understand the answer, and you do not have to visualize something to understand it. However, this also means you often neglect the physical information provided by a concrete example. In other words, you may miss the forest for the trees, trying to deduce something complex when the answer is plain to see.



Medical Advice
Saturday, May 23, 2009, 1:33 pm
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I love this Doctor!
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Q: Doctor, I’ve heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life. Is this true?
A: Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that’s it. Don’t waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that’s like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.

Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?
A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.

Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?
A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, that means they take the water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain. Bottoms up!

Q: How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?
A: Well, if you have a body and you have fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio is two to one, etc.

Q: What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?
A: Can’t think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain…Good!

Q: Aren’t fried foods bad for you?
A: YOU’RE NOT LISTENING!!! … Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they’re permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?

Q: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little soft around the middle?
A: Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.

Q: Is chocolate bad for me?
A: Are you crazy? HELLO Cocoa beans! Another vegetable!!! It’s the best feel-good food around!

Q: Is swimming good for your figure?
A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me.

Q: Is getting in-shape important for my lifestyle?
A: Hey! ‘Round’ is a shape!

Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets.

AND…for those of you who watch what you eat, here’s the final word on nutrition and health. It’s a relief to know the truth after all those conflicting nutritional studies.

1. The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

3. The Chinese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

5. The Germans drink a lot of beers and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

CONCLUSION:

Eat and drink what you like. Speaking English is apparently what kills you.

AND REMEMBER:
‘Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways – Chardonnay in one hand – chocolate in the other – body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming

‘WOO HOO, What a Ride’